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Anxiety, or something that looks like it

“Anxiety” is the word for at least four different states, and they need different responses. How to tell dread from depletion from rumination — plus a free, unmodified GAD-7.

Most pages about anxiety open with a list of symptoms. The problem is that the list is nearly identical for all four states above — poor sleep, short temper, tight chest, trouble concentrating, a mind that will not settle. Reading it tells you something is wrong, which you knew. It does not tell you which thing, and that is the part that decides what helps.

This page is the sorting step. It is not a clinical resource and it does not diagnose anything — if you want a clinical page, the NHS and NIMH are better at that than we will ever be, and we would rather say so than pretend otherwise.

Which one is it?

If the dominant feeling is…It is probably…And the thing that helps is…
“Something bad is going to happen.” Forward-looking. Often no specific object.AnxietyTolerating uncertainty, scheduled worry windows, and — above a threshold — a professional. Start with the GAD-7.
“I have nothing left.” Flat, cynical, competent-but-empty. Worst on Monday.BurnoutRecovery and load reduction, not coping skills. A holiday famously does not fix it. Start with the burnout test.
“Why did I say that.” Replaying a conversation for the twentieth time.RuminationInterruption and action, not more analysis. Start with the overthinking test.
“I cannot decide.” Researching well past the point of usefulness.Analysis paralysisConstraint — a deadline, a satisficing rule, a reversibility test. See making a hard decision.
“There is too much and no room to think.” Not frightened, just full.Open loopsGetting it out of your head and onto one surface. A mind sweep takes ten minutes.

Why anxiety resists advice

There is a structural reason worry is hard to drop, and it is worth knowing because it explains why willpower does not work on it. Worry appears to succeed. You spend a week rehearsing a disaster, the disaster does not happen, and the worry quietly takes the credit — so the behaviour is reinforced by exactly the outcome that should have disproved it. Nothing about that is irrational; it is an unlucky feedback loop. It also means the useful question is not “how do I stop worrying” but “what would convince me I could stop”.

When a number is worth having

A score is not insight, and a screener cannot tell you what to do. What it can do is two specific things. It gives you a word that other people — a GP, a therapist, a partner — already understand, which shortens a difficult conversation considerably. And taken twice a month apart it gives you a direction, which is the only part of any of this that is genuinely actionable. The GAD-7 on this site is the unmodified instrument with the published cutoffs, free, with no account and nothing stored.

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What we are not

Brihas is not therapy, not a therapist, and not a crisis service. It is a private thinking partner for the things you are carrying on your own — work, relationships, money, and decisions nobody else can make for you. For some people that is the right tool and for others it is plainly not, and anxiety at the severe end of the GAD-7 is firmly in the second category: that is a doctor, not an app.

Anxiety, or something that looks like it: common questions

Is it anxiety or burnout?
The quickest discriminator is the direction of the feeling. Anxiety points forward — something bad is coming. Burnout points at the present and is about depletion: exhaustion, cynicism about work that used to matter, and feeling less effective than you used to be. Anxiety usually makes it hard to settle; burnout usually makes it hard to care. They frequently co-occur, but the first move differs, because burnout responds to load reduction and anxiety does not.
Can you have anxiety without feeling anxious?
You can certainly have it without recognising it as fear. It shows up physically for a lot of people — a tight chest, shallow sleep, jaw tension, stomach trouble, irritability — and the mental part reads as being busy or alert rather than afraid. That is one reason a short screener is useful: the GAD-7 asks about restlessness and irritability, not only about dread.
What is the difference between stress and anxiety?
Stress is a response to a demand that is actually present, and it generally ends when the demand does. Anxiety persists when the demand is absent or imagined, and it is about the anticipation rather than the thing. Practically: if you can name what would end it and that thing is real and dated, you are probably describing stress.
Does an anxiety test diagnose anything?
No. The GAD-7 is a screening instrument, not a diagnostic one. At its standard cut-point of 10 it identifies about 89% of people who do have generalised anxiety disorder and correctly clears about 82% of people who do not — both short of certainty, in both directions. It also cannot distinguish generalised anxiety from panic, social or health anxiety, and several physical conditions produce the same symptoms. A diagnosis needs a professional.
Is anxiety at night different?
The mechanism is not different but the conditions are, which is why it feels worse. At night the distractions that normally interrupt a worry chain are gone, you are horizontal and under-stimulated, and tiredness reduces the capacity to drop a thought deliberately. Nothing new has gone wrong at 2am — it is simply the first moment all day that nothing is competing for your attention.
Can Brihas help with anxiety?
For the everyday end of it — working out what is actually driving a worry, noticing that you have had the same conversation with yourself eleven times, deciding something you have been circling — that is exactly what it is for, and it is private and available at 2am, which a therapist is not. For moderate-to-severe anxiety on the GAD-7 it is not a substitute for proper care, and we would rather tell you that than sell you a subscription.

Brihas is a structured reflection tool, not a medical or diagnostic service. Nothing here is a diagnosis, a treatment plan, or a substitute for care from a qualified professional. If you are in crisis, please reach a helpline or a clinician.